Start by organising your documents
Evidence can be important in legal proceedings. Before meeting a lawyer, consider gathering the following where it is safe and lawful to do so:
- Identity and marriage documents. Birth certificates, national ID, marriage certificate and children’s documents.
- Medical evidence. After a physical injury, seek medical care and ask about documenting injuries. A lawyer can advise on formal medical evidence.
- Witnesses. Names and contact details of people who saw the incident or its effects, such as neighbours, colleagues, doctors or teachers.
- Communications. Messages, existing recordings and written threats, with dates and without editing. Ask a lawyer about rules on recording and use of evidence.
- Financial information. A list of assets, accounts, debts and mahr, together with available supporting documents.
Topics to discuss
Divorce rights and marriage-contract conditions
The terms recorded in your marriage contract may affect your options. Ask your lawyer to review the certificate and its conditions carefully.
Mahr and financial rights
Mahr, maintenance and compensation for work during marriage are distinct matters with different legal routes. Ask which may apply to your circumstances and about the likely time and costs involved.
Child custody
Custody, legal guardianship and contact rights are separate concepts. Ask who makes decisions in your circumstances, when arrangements can change and how a history of violence may be considered.
Criminal complaints
Assault, threats and insults may involve different legal claims. Ask which are relevant, what deadlines apply and how a complaint could affect daily life and safety.
Travel restrictions
If you plan to travel or leave the country, check exit permissions and children’s documentation before buying tickets.

Questions for your first meeting with a lawyer
- Which option may give the quickest result, and which is safest in my situation?
- What action could the other person take in response if I start proceedings?
- Which documents am I missing, and how can I obtain them safely?
- What are the estimated total costs, including court fees?
- What happens if I decide not to continue partway through?
- Am I eligible for free advice or legal aid?